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The Ultimate Guide to Rimming

Posted: Oct 08 2015

Tossing the salad, baling the hay, kissing the south mouth, moving to brown town, buttering the corn hole, cheeks to cheeks, making out on the back porch (I could keep going!) – however you want to refer to it, anal oral sex or rimming can be one of the biggest pleasures to both give and receive. You might be a little shy when it comes to getting or giving it for the first time, but once you go there it’s awfully difficult to believe you haven’t been doing it! At Joy Sex Toys Online we strive to make this a safe place for you to explore your curiosities and live out your deepest fantasies. In the spirit of that, I now present to you the ultimate rimming sexual guide!

The Ultimate Guide to Rimming introduction

What is Rimming?

We’ll just get down to brass tacks, shall we? To give a rim job means that you use your mouth and/or tongue to arouse the outside rim of your partner’s anus. It is practiced by people from all walks of life, all sexual orientations and all genders – it has a lot of appeal that many people have just started to realize.

I think that a lot of people who consider themselves totally heterosexual have had a hard time coming to terms with anything involving ass play. It is often seen as strictly in the domain of the homosexual, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. The truth is that, if you look at the increase of anal toys sales, more people are starting to cotton on to the fact that anal play just feels good – no matter if you like men or women.

For the Newbies

If you’re thinking of trying this for the first time you’re probably wondering where to start. After all, this is the place where poop comes out and most people want their mouths as far from the poop place as they can get. I think that’s an evolutionary survival mechanism! However, there are safe way to go about booty munching that can make it a pleasurable experience not only for your partner, but for you too.

First, make sure for the comfort of both of you that the hole is as clean as it can get. Take a shower together and use your hands to soap it up and massage it, all while getting it clean. This is a great way to work your way into it, because if you’re going to be expected to put your face there then you need to be comfortable with the body part. Exploring it with your hands is a great way to get comfortable and that will only make the experience better for everyone involved.

If you’re a woman and your man is a bit hairy, then some serious manscaping needs to occur – there’s no shame in asking him to trim the patch! Pubes in the back of your throat are a great way to NOT encourage a sexy mood – I think we all have fallen victim to that one!

The Ultimate Guide to Rimming For the Newbies

There’s one more thing that newbies need to know – buy flavored lube. Seriously, you can thank me later for this. Lube not only helps the sensations during anal oral sex, it also can help to make the act a bit more palatable if you’re nervous about any funky smells or tastes. You can also use a dental dam in this process if it’ll make you feel comfortable – there’s no judgement. Remember, this is about giving pleasure in a way you are comfortable with. Heck, you could even break out the plastic wrap from your kitchen for this one! You’ll never view your office pitch in the same way again.

Personally, I think it’s really important to remember that a lot of the intimacy that is built between sex partners comes from the knowledge that they accept you – ALL of you. In other words, no part of their body turns you off and vice versa. It’s a really beautiful thing if you think about it.

Get the Moves

So, there’s not really a formula per se of how to give a good rim job. With everything else that comes with sex, you can score a lot of points for enthusiasm. After all, if you’re enjoying yourself then your partner will know you are into and it’ll be a better experience for them. That having been said, I do have a few tips for going down to brown town.

The right position is a must for rimming. Your partner needs to be in a position that will give you easy access to the brown starfish and still be comfortable. Your partner can kneel on the sofa with their elbows against the back of it while pushing that derriere out for you. If you are kneeling on the floor behind them then this will give you all the access you need. If you want to switch it up then have your partner sit on your face as you tongue them, or have your partner lie on their back with a pillow under their butt so it’s at just the right angle for you. If your partner is the limber sort then they could always do a handstand with their legs open in a V. I’m totally serious, that would be damn impressive. Knowing your limits is a good thing, however.

It’s also best if don’t think about the butthole as a dart board with the target straight in the middle. You need to use some finesse with this. Lick, stroke and nibble to start. Then take the intensity up a notch by light licks with the tip of your tongue as you move around the hole. There are a lot of nerve endings surrounding this area and you want to take the take to stimulate every last one. There are fewer nerves inside the rectum, so concentrating on the muscles around the outside is really where it’s all at. You’ll get more bang for your buck there!

Also don’t forget that your partner does have an entire body attached to their butt. Run your hands over their cheeks, down their thighs, play with their nipples and if your partner is a man you can massage his penis while you do your magic.

The Ultimate Guide to Rimming What is Rimming

A Few Notes of Caution

If your lover is a casual lover and you two are not exclusive you need to be aware there are risks to rimming just as there is to any other sexual act. Some serious things are possible to transmit through rim jobs are HIV and herpes. In fact, you can pass chlamydia and gonorrhea through oral anal sex too. You can also get bugs that cause vomiting and diarrhea, or can give a woman bladder or vaginal infections. Make sure you talk to your partner before embarking on any sexual exploits with them to make sure they are disease free. If you’re not sure if they are then need to take the proper precautions in order to protect yourself.

If giving a rim job is something you really want to try but your partner isn’t into it then there’s really nothing you can do or should do to try and convince them. The same goes if it’s something your lover really wants you to perform and you don’t really want to. No one should ever feel pressured to do something that they don’t want to do. Just having the discussion, even if it doesn’t result in tongues going near an anus, will bring you closer together.

The Ultimate Guide to Rimming  Few Notes

Is Oral Anal Sex Right for You?

If you’re looking to add a little spice to you love life and you like to give your partner nice surprises, then trying it out sometime when you’re performing oral sex may not be a terrible idea. It is especially a good idea if you’re curious about some booty action or if your partner is. If you’ve been sex partners for a while, chances are you will know if they’re down with a little anal action or not. If it’s something you’d like your partner to try on you, you can always lead by example. But I’m a big believer in direct communication and if you want something you can’t expect your partner to automatically pick up on clues. Tell them directly that it’s something you’re interested in.

In the End

Anal stimulation through oral means seems to be one of those things that people either love or hate. You will rarely meet a person who are just somewhere in the middle of the love/hate scale when it comes to rimming. There’s nothing wrong or unnatural about either opinion. People have their preferences and there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s ok not to like it, and it’s ok to love it. If you love, you will probably always love it. If you haven’t tried it yet, well there’s no time like the present! You may find that you love it or you may find that you hate both giving and receiving, but you won’t know until you try. You only live once, folks! Don’t get to the end of your life and think “I wish I’d given rimming a try”.

The Ultimate Guide to Rimming Conclusion

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