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The Curious Couple's Bondage Kit Essentials

Posted: Sep 09 2015

The curious couple's bondage kit essentials Bondage Introduction

 

Most people would imagine an intensely erotic visual when asked about bondage sex toys, even more so after the rollicking success of E L James’ 50 Shades of Grey. Believe it or not, bondage sex has hit the mainstream big-time and couples of all caste, creed and color are hopping on the bondage and BDSM bandwagon. So, whether you’re inclined towards pain, want to try something new to spice up your love life or if you’re just plain curious, there are a number of things that you should buy and know if you’re looking to indulge.

 

Why Bondage Sex?

 

The one important decision point while engaging in bondage sex is that there is confusion between who should dominate and who should be subdued. A problem with bondage is that people aren’t very clear about the real life implications as well as the physical limitations of using bondage toys. The truth is that almost any heterosexual man will enjoy having their anuses violated, massaged, or otherwise entered into, including by a strap on. It is important to know that bondage has no gender bending implications and that it should be enjoyed as a playful means of spicing up one’s sex life.

 

The basic question always boils down to whether to tie or be tied! There are dozens of bondage items that one can buy to indulge in bondage sex, including you standard handcuffs, wrist & ankle restraints and blindfolds. But there’s a whole world of bondage that is left for the curious to explore. And if you have no idea what you’re doing or don’t know where to start, you could always buy a unique bondage kit that will contain everything you need for hours of playful bondage fun. Your typical bondage kit usually comes with one or more of the following:

 

The curious couple's bondage kit essentials Red Room

 

1. Spanking Paddle

 

Probably the most instantly recognizable bondage sex toy, especially after Christian Grey’s perpetually twitchy palm, the spanking paddle is a mainstay in any collection of bondage tools, and is standard issue for most bondage kits. The beauty of a spanking paddle lies in the fact that you or your partner can do it as lightly or as hard as either of you’ll please.

 

The curious couple's bondage kit essentials spanking paddle

 

2. Bondage Sheets

 

For anyone who has space or budget restrictions, bondage sheets are the only way to go. They are basically fitted sheets that have cuffs or other restraints, built in. These “toys” resemble traditional slip on bed sheets and will slip right onto your existing bedding or mattress. They are best suited for amateurs or those looking to indulge in light bondage because they are easy to remove and store.

 

 

The curious couple's bondage kit essentials Bondage Sheets

 

3. Bondage Tape

 

Another bondage kit essential, bondage tape is a skin-friendly adhesive product that can be used to bind, or restrain one’s private parts. Also known as pleasure tape, it is fairly easy to apply and should also be easy to remove as it shouldn’t harm the skin.

 

The curious couple's bondage kit essentials Bondage Tape

 

4. Cuffs

 

Considered to be a bondage toy for noobs, cuffs are the ideal bondage items for those looking to tie or be tied down at the wrists or ankles. Unlike commercial or police handcuffs, which are hard and restrictive, bondage cuffs are typically soft and flexible and are designed to be worn for hours without causing any discomfort. The mostly use Velcro, although the traditional lock and key variants can be just a fun, and are commonly used along with other bondage toys including ropes and tethers.

 

 

The curious couple's bondage kit essentials Hand cuffs

 

5. Ropes

 

One of the most basic bondage toys, rope is not recommended for the novice as one wrong knot or one that’s tied too tight might take the fix out of the much-awaited bondage session. Unlike regular rope, bondage ropeshould be soft to the touch and gentle on the skin. These ropes can be used to restrain any body part, which also makes them a versatile and fun bondage toy.

 

The curious couple's bondage kit essentials Bondage Ropes

 

6. Straps

 

Another must have for any bondage kit; straps are a useful bondage toy which allows users to restrain body parts of their choice. They can hold down limbs, right from the wrists to the entire arm. Straps can be bought in a variety of lengths depending on personal choice. They can be purchased in the form of loops, lock and key or Velcro. If there’s one bondage kit essential that you’d need to make your wildest BDSM dream come to life, it’s got to be the strap.

 

The curious couple's bondage kit essentials Bondage Straps

 

7. Sex Slings and Harnesses

 

Sex slings or swings are just durable children’s swings that have been scaled to fit the size requirements of a fully grown adult. They can be extremely simple slings that are wrapped behind the wearer’s neck and attached to their ankles, or they can very elaborate and come equipped with restraints or a strap on, or other fittings. A harness or swing opens up an entirely new world of sex positions that involve one partner being suspended in mid-air.

 

 

The curious couple's bondage kit essentials Bondage Swings

8. Feather Teaser

 

If you’re the type who likes to tease or get teased by their partners, the feather teaser is the most generic bondage sext toy that you can find. Best suited for BDSM beginners and for light foreplay, the feather lets you tease your partner’s sensitive parts.

 

The curious couple's bondage kit essentials Bondage Feather

9. Tethers

 

Tethers are your generic straps that are typically used to hook on to bondage cuffs or restraints. They can be one sided, or double sided, wherein in end is hooked on to a cuff and the other to a wall or a bed post.

 

The curious couple's bondage kit essentials Bondage Tethers

 

Beginning Your BDSM journey

 

If anything, this couple’s guide to bondage kits, or building their own bondage kit should be enough to prove that bondage and BDSM doesn't have to be a scary or painful act that requires a safe word in case it gets too overwhelming. And for those who are willing to experiment, the sky is the limit in terms of what you can derive out of such a sexual experience.

 

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