How to Give A Woman the Best Oral Sex of Her Life
Posted: Jun 08 2015
Giving Your Women Better Than Good Oral Sex
Ask any woman how she feels about oral sex, and you’ll get a variety of answers. Most will tell you it feels good, but it can be better than good and you know that! Do you want to be a lean mean, orgasm giving machine? Well, today is your lucky day because this is how you can give the woman in your life the best oral sex of her life!
For one, a woman isn’t going to let you go anywhere, including downtown, if she’s not relaxed. So, plan beforehand how to make her relax. Don’t rush her. One of the reasons most women are self-conscious when it comes to oral is they are worried that it will take them a while to work towards the orgasm. If she knows you’re settled in and not in a rush, it’ll make it that much more enjoyable for her.
Position variation isn’t just for regular sex, it can add a new dimension to oral too. She knows what feels best for her, but suggest putting a pillow under her butt to lift up her pelvis. This will give you great leverage to take her to another dimension with your oral skills. Keep her knees wide open the wider she is the better, the more room both of you will have to work with. This will make the oral pleasure feel even more wonderful. But don’t just make sure she’s in a good position. You’ve got a job to do here, after all, and you don’t need to need a neck brace after it’s done!
Your tongue is the key to great oral sex, but don’t go for the gusto right from the start. Tease a little, lightly lick up and down, paying attention to the thighs first and then moving in on the love button (you know what I mean), gaining intensity and speed as time goes on (Don't Rush).
Pay Attention To Her Body Language
She may not realize it, but she’s telling you where to go with her body language. Pay attention to her breathing, how she’s moving and thrusting her hips. Learn her body and listen to it. When you find her responding well to something you’re doing, keep doing it.
Toys are a great thing to incorporate into oral sex too. The average woman takes 20 minutes to climax from oral sex, so you’re going to need to settle in. Adding a toy to the party will only make things better for the both of you, and can be your ace in the hole for getting your woman to climax.
Remember that your woman and her climax are like her, a beautiful piece of music and you’re working towards the crescendo in a very slow and steady pace. Increase pressure and speed at her cues. When you find what works make sure you stick with it, and keep the momentum. Treat that clitoris with extra care. The goal isn’t to beat it up, but to treat it with some TLC to coax from it the reaction you want.
Keep Reality In Check
The key to climax for any woman is to keep doing what you’re doing. If you switch it up right before she orgasms, you might just lose her. And because I like to keep my feet, and therefore yours, planted firmly in reality you need to realize that she may not come at all. That’s ok. That doesn’t mean you did anything wrong, it just means you need to keep trying. And that’s half the fun, anyway!