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Everything You Have to Know About Anal Sex

Posted: May 26 2015

Everything You Have to Know About Anal Sex

Anal Sex Is On The Rise

Backdoor action. Bum lovin’. No matter what you call it, anal sex is on the rise.

Maybe people are more comfortable in talking about it and exploring it, but it seems like a lot more people are open to it. So, you can be honest – are you trying to convince your girlfriend to go for it? In my experience, many women seem resistant to try it. It’s a rare woman who will let you take her from behind. The real question is how can you present it to your lady in a way that will make it appealing and fun? Well, you’re in luck, because I happen to have a few suggestions that you must read that can make your anal fantasy a reality. You can thank me later.
I’m not going to claim to be some kind of miracle sexpert, but I will tell you that anal sex is either going to be something that she loves or something that she hates; there tends to be no gray area when it comes to anal sex. This is because if it’s not done right it can be really painful for a woman, and if she experiences pain when she tries it for the first time she won’t be lining up to give it a go again anytime soon. If she is open to giving it a whirl, however, you need to practice patience. Try different positions, get the good lube, and rock her socks off with your technique and know-how.
It's Naughty!

Another reason to do it is because, well, it’s naughty.

You’re a naughty boy, she’s a naughty girl, and together you are a dirty and naughty pair. It adds a little edge of the forbidden to your sex life, and that has a lot of benefits! Come on, you know it’s fun to be naughty.When presenting it to her, make sure you let her know that if done right and with the right person, it can feel pretty damn amazing. Like, shoot directly to the moon orgasm amazing. It’s a completely different sensation that results in a completely different orgasm than vaginal sex. For you, her rectum will grab a hold of your member and squeeze it in a way you’ve never even known was possible. And don’t forget to stimulate her clit while you’re doing the deed, this will not only make it easier for her, but really push her over the edge of pleasure.


There are a couple of drawbacks to anal sex, and because you endeavor to be honest with your partner you’ll want to discuss these. Just remember, it’s all about how you frame them. First of all, it can be painful. The rectum is not really made to have things put in it; it’s pretty much an exit only. The vagina is made to accommodate a penis, but an anus isn’t so if you don’t prepare her well and she is not relaxed it can be an unpleasant experience. The good news is that it doesn’t have to be. Just make sure she is really turned on before you even attempt it, and try to prepare her with some finger action or even a small butt plug before you do the deed. Easing into it will make it go easier for both of you.

A lot of women worry it’s going to be messy, and who can really blame them. I mean, it is where poop comes out. This can make a lot of women self-conscious and unwilling to give it a go. Reassure her that it doesn’t matter to you. Having anal sex is not an enemy, and it’s easy to wash up beforehand to make sure nothing unsightly occurs. Plus, if she empties her bowels at least an hour beforehand she should be good to go.

Anal sex can be a wonderful experience for you and your partner. It feels amazing and brings you closer, so here’s to hoping you will give it a try and enjoy it as much as you can!

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